I'm a college student and am involved in my first serious relationship. Everything is going great, but I have one nagging concern that I can't get past. When my girlfriend and I have sex, she often gets worked up into a screaming, writhing sexual frenzy. (That's not the problem.) The problem is that I sometimes get the impression that she's overdoing it a bit -- you know, faking it. Sometimes I feel like my efforts aren't enough to merit such an over the top reaction.

So here's my question: Is there a way for me to tell of my girlfriend is faking it?

-- Suspicious Student

In a word: no.

Well, theoretically you could tell if you had access to some sophisticated skin temperature-measurement devices or could accurately assess the circumference of her pupils. But you're not going to be able to do that. Orgasms are hard things to quantify, and the actual physical differences between a 'real' and a 'fake' orgasm are all but impossible for someone to distinguish from the outside.

If this is a real concern for you, you need to talk it over with your girlfriend. Women 'fake it' for a variety of reasons, from trying to please their man to simply being tired and ready to go to sleep. You should discuss this with her and find out where she's coming from. And don't just assume that she's faking it because of her screaming and moaning -- maybe your efforts are a bit more on-the-money than you're giving yourself credit for!

-DocXXX

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