Whenever I watch a porno flick, I see the guys spraying their semen all over the place. Yet when I cum, my semen just sort of dribbles out. Is this something I should be worried about?

-- Dribbler in Dallas

No, you shouldn't worry about it. Every man is different -- some guys shoot their semen all over the place while some have semen that drips out at a more leisurely pace. There's nothing wrong with either way, trust me.

Ejaculation occurs in response to sexual stimulation that causes the muscles near the prostate gland to contract. This sends fluids from the prostate gland and seminal vesicles into the urethra. A few seconds later, signals from the brain close off the valve between the bladder and urethra and propel the semen down the urethra and out of the penis. It's really a reflex action, and not one that can be controlled physically.

If it really concerns you, you can try a simple exercise that might have a slight effect. Try clinching and unclinching the muscles at the base of your penis and around your anus. This can tighten these muscles, and in time can have some effect on the explosiveness of your semen shooting. Don't expect to ever become a semen spraying porn star, though -- for the most part you can't really increase your blasts all that much.

My best advice is to just be happy that everything's in working order. Frankly, there are plenty of women out there who prefer dribbling to shooting -- ever gotten a glob of semen shot into your eye? Relax and don't try to compare yourself to these porn stars. They don't really represent the average man in most respects, and this is yet another one.

-DocXXX

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